Comments on: Wanted: You, for Self Sabotage

By: Goals, Plans & Achievements- Self Improvement ~ Upgrade Reality

Goals, Plans & Achievements- Self Improvement ~ Upgrade Reality — Wed, 30 Dec 2009 10:58:39 +0000

[...] Wanted : You for Self Sabotage [...]

By: Your Only Competition: You | A Boundless World

Your Only Competition: You | A Boundless World — Tue, 15 Dec 2009 00:18:18 +0000

[...] Self sabotage is a notorious dream killer. It limits our mind and keeps us grounded when all our soul wants to do is fly. Do what you must to kill self sabotage. Become aware of your thinking. Is it mostly positive? Or is your mind cluttered with dismissive chatter? When you become aware of your thoughts you gain control. [...]

By: Vincent

Vincent — Sat, 28 Nov 2009 09:24:11 +0000

Hey Diggy,

I always believe that our beliefs shape our reality. Our mind also seek out evidences to support our beliefs regardless of whether our beliefs are good or bad. So choosing to believe in something positive is definitely a better choice.

Cheers,
Vincent

By: Naomi

Naomi — Tue, 24 Nov 2009 18:43:40 +0000

I’d like to hear more on your personal journey of how EFT and Sedona Method has changed you. I have tried EFT to change my ADD habits, my mind jumping, negative thought process but has not worked. Also have you heard the Lefkoe Method or this new tapping http://www.pstec.org/
Yes, I do agree with Toto that self-improvement reading makes you feel hopeful until you are faced in reality with the problem and go back to your old habits. The anxiety, nervousness, fear takes over. So how how do you change?

Congrats on changing.

By: Johanne

Johanne — Mon, 23 Nov 2009 09:44:53 +0000

“you can consciously change your habits and thought processes.”

Well put.

By: alternaview

alternaview — Sat, 21 Nov 2009 12:38:40 +0000

Happy Birthday.
Great post. Sometimes we really are our biggest obstacle and it is easy to get in our own way. I think we have to constantly be on the lookout for these things that are actually working against us. I read somewhere it was like weeding a garden. We have to continually focus on creating the ideal environment and remove those things that are holding us back. Thanks for the insightful post.

By: Rich

Rich — Fri, 20 Nov 2009 10:07:02 +0000

GOod post Diggy – self-limiting beleifs have got to be the biggest battle we all have. And it is not a battle you only need to win once – they will always creep back in!

By: Endy Daniyanto

Endy Daniyanto — Fri, 20 Nov 2009 02:06:20 +0000

Since you used getting a gorgeous girl as an example, I have a friend who’s just the perfect candidate for this post (since he’s been chasing model-type girls since 2002 until now – still no luck).

Cheers,

By: Oleg Mokhov

Oleg Mokhov — Thu, 19 Nov 2009 18:03:25 +0000

Hey Diggy,

If we give ourselves permission to be awesome, we can be whoever we want.

It’s free to imagine, so why not go nuts? Are you an introvert but want to meet gorgeous ladies? Just picture yourself doing it, chatting up and forming real connections. Feet stiff as boards but want to boogie down? Imagine yourself tearing up the dance floor.

It costs nothing, and no one can physically stop you from dreaming, so just go for it. For many, like you mentioned, this is often the most difficult step. Society, family and peers have driven a certain you into your mind so much that you don’t even give yourself permission to imagine – it’s too far fetched from your reality, like someone telling you the grass is blue.

But if you just push past that psychological wall, and don’t let such weak forces control you, you break through and achieve the first crucial step towards being how you truly want to be.

I wrote more about giving yourself permission to be awesome and how to do it (hope me linking to this article isn’t spammy – just thought it might be relevant and helpful to the topic).

Great article. Happy b-day, enjoy your Amsterdam stay, and keep giving yourself permission to be even more awesome,
Oleg

By: alex - unleash reality

alex - unleash reality — Thu, 19 Nov 2009 16:20:04 +0000

magic magic magic

awwwwwsomeness.

full next level. massive improvement in your writing. true story.

happy bday again

saturday hahaha.

i’ll bring my chicka