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		<title>By: Glen</title>
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		<dc:creator>Glen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Oct 2011 19:42:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yes. Thats what I mean young sir.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yes. Thats what I mean young sir.</p>
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		<title>By: Shane</title>
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		<dc:creator>Shane</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 28 Sep 2011 08:35:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I am not going to write a long comment so many others have all ready, so I am just going to say, 

Well done</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am not going to write a long comment so many others have all ready, so I am just going to say, </p>
<p>Well done</p>
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		<title>By: JenJen</title>
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		<dc:creator>JenJen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 20 Sep 2011 19:05:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>damn, do you know me? 
cause those examples describes my situation pretty well
I&#039;m just kidding, but those examples do resemble my life a lot and this article should help me through my problems that I thought were gone away, but I realized it is still there because I am doing all my best to evolve and change into the loving being I see myself as, but childhood memories and past relationships keep me from achieving so and i&#039;m absolutely frightened, and my biggest fear is that I am going to be let down again because I have been let down,pretty much, majority of my life, by people, and have finally found the courage within myself to pull me through, but there&#039;s this thing that I want that I am not allowing myself to have because I look at the future and all I see is the letdowns and the dumb stuff I have always had to deal with cause it&#039;s all I know, and all I have ever known, and it scares me, it really does, and i don&#039;t want to be the victim anymore, but my past experiences keep haunting me, but I think it&#039;s time for me to be not attached to them anymore, cause in the end I&#039;m really just hurting myself, and my mentality and all that I have learned to becoming this evolving person I am today seems to mean nothing if I keep letting my past take over...

and this is long, and I have never expressed this much before...but hey it&#039;s the internet, we don&#039;t know each other so it&#039;s all good :D</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>damn, do you know me?<br />
cause those examples describes my situation pretty well<br />
I&#8217;m just kidding, but those examples do resemble my life a lot and this article should help me through my problems that I thought were gone away, but I realized it is still there because I am doing all my best to evolve and change into the loving being I see myself as, but childhood memories and past relationships keep me from achieving so and i&#8217;m absolutely frightened, and my biggest fear is that I am going to be let down again because I have been let down,pretty much, majority of my life, by people, and have finally found the courage within myself to pull me through, but there&#8217;s this thing that I want that I am not allowing myself to have because I look at the future and all I see is the letdowns and the dumb stuff I have always had to deal with cause it&#8217;s all I know, and all I have ever known, and it scares me, it really does, and i don&#8217;t want to be the victim anymore, but my past experiences keep haunting me, but I think it&#8217;s time for me to be not attached to them anymore, cause in the end I&#8217;m really just hurting myself, and my mentality and all that I have learned to becoming this evolving person I am today seems to mean nothing if I keep letting my past take over&#8230;</p>
<p>and this is long, and I have never expressed this much before&#8230;but hey it&#8217;s the internet, we don&#8217;t know each other so it&#8217;s all good <img src='http://www.pluginid.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif' alt=':D' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Lin</title>
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		<dc:creator>Lin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 12 Sep 2011 20:06:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hey Glen!
I am really glad I came across your post. I have a problem that has been rolling around in my head for over 12 years now. I have had a crush on this guy since middle school, and I have never told him. I am currently married to my husband of 6 years, and we have a 2 yr old little boy together. Although I love my husband, I am not in love with him. The guy that I have had this crush on for forever is married and has two children. He doesn&#039;t even know that I have this obsession with him, and here lately, he is all that I think about.  My ten year high school reunion is next year, and all I can think about is telling my &#039;crush&#039; how I feel about him. I don&#039;t want to ruin his relationship with his wife, but I just want him to know how I feel. I need to get this off of my chest, and just to see if he ever felt the same way. What should I do? I need answers. I don&#039;t want to ruin anyone&#039;s life in the process of getting this off my chest.Please help.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey Glen!<br />
I am really glad I came across your post. I have a problem that has been rolling around in my head for over 12 years now. I have had a crush on this guy since middle school, and I have never told him. I am currently married to my husband of 6 years, and we have a 2 yr old little boy together. Although I love my husband, I am not in love with him. The guy that I have had this crush on for forever is married and has two children. He doesn&#8217;t even know that I have this obsession with him, and here lately, he is all that I think about.  My ten year high school reunion is next year, and all I can think about is telling my &#8216;crush&#8217; how I feel about him. I don&#8217;t want to ruin his relationship with his wife, but I just want him to know how I feel. I need to get this off of my chest, and just to see if he ever felt the same way. What should I do? I need answers. I don&#8217;t want to ruin anyone&#8217;s life in the process of getting this off my chest.Please help.</p>
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		<title>By: shaniqua</title>
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		<dc:creator>shaniqua</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 28 Aug 2011 13:08:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>There&#039;s a boy that I like a lot, although he&#039;s a year older than me. He&#039;s short for his age but then again so am I. He&#039;s been eyeing me lately and hinting me slightly, even though we both know he&#039;s seeing another girl at the moment. He knows I like him, at least I think he knows, and I wouldn&#039;t date him but I would hook up and stuff with him occasionally. But lately I&#039;ve been trying to ignore his stare because I really like this boy who&#039;s my age, and I actually want to start a relationship with him. But I can never get my mind off the first boy, that I&#039;ve liked for two years. I try not to look at him at school but I can&#039;t help it when I see him looking at me. I really want to get my mind off him and I tried this but its not working for the soul reason that he&#039;s not an object and I currently like him, he&#039;s not from my past. I&#039;ve tried everything I can but everyday I look for him in the school yard and when I see him I&#039;ll smile and giggle to myself when others aren&#039;t looking. Anyway I just wanted to vent out my feelings. Kbye. Also I&#039;m 14 :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>There&#8217;s a boy that I like a lot, although he&#8217;s a year older than me. He&#8217;s short for his age but then again so am I. He&#8217;s been eyeing me lately and hinting me slightly, even though we both know he&#8217;s seeing another girl at the moment. He knows I like him, at least I think he knows, and I wouldn&#8217;t date him but I would hook up and stuff with him occasionally. But lately I&#8217;ve been trying to ignore his stare because I really like this boy who&#8217;s my age, and I actually want to start a relationship with him. But I can never get my mind off the first boy, that I&#8217;ve liked for two years. I try not to look at him at school but I can&#8217;t help it when I see him looking at me. I really want to get my mind off him and I tried this but its not working for the soul reason that he&#8217;s not an object and I currently like him, he&#8217;s not from my past. I&#8217;ve tried everything I can but everyday I look for him in the school yard and when I see him I&#8217;ll smile and giggle to myself when others aren&#8217;t looking. Anyway I just wanted to vent out my feelings. Kbye. Also I&#8217;m 14 <img src='http://www.pluginid.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: tj</title>
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		<dc:creator>tj</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 28 Aug 2011 02:12:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Ok so about 2 years ago my live in boyfriend of 3 years ended our relationship because he &quot; couldn&#039;t get over his dead EX wife. For the past 1 1/2 years we have been having a &quot; friends with benefits&quot; relationship. I know this is not healthy and keep saying I&#039;m done but all it takes is a text or phone call from him and I am back at square one. I can&#039;t completely avoid him because we live in a very small town</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ok so about 2 years ago my live in boyfriend of 3 years ended our relationship because he &#8221; couldn&#8217;t get over his dead EX wife. For the past 1 1/2 years we have been having a &#8221; friends with benefits&#8221; relationship. I know this is not healthy and keep saying I&#8217;m done but all it takes is a text or phone call from him and I am back at square one. I can&#8217;t completely avoid him because we live in a very small town</p>
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		<title>By: Zan</title>
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		<dc:creator>Zan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 27 Aug 2011 05:04:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hii glen...ur post is amazing ...i jus hope that it works on me..
My problem is that my results were out recently....was shocked to see that i failed...i just cant get over this failing thing...every time i try to study, it distracts me like hell and depresses me...apart from that Der is this girl who is always on my mind n i just cant get rid of her...she passed n went ahead where as i failed and now am 6 months back.we wont be classmates any more...i don&#039;t knw whether its love or its just a attachment but its very hard 2 get her out...every time i try to study both these problems play a vital role in jus closing my books n thinking about my bad luck...i just don&#039;t know what to do...my exams are also coming up very soon.      
I just hope that ur post helps me out... 
Thank you...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hii glen&#8230;ur post is amazing &#8230;i jus hope that it works on me..<br />
My problem is that my results were out recently&#8230;.was shocked to see that i failed&#8230;i just cant get over this failing thing&#8230;every time i try to study, it distracts me like hell and depresses me&#8230;apart from that Der is this girl who is always on my mind n i just cant get rid of her&#8230;she passed n went ahead where as i failed and now am 6 months back.we wont be classmates any more&#8230;i don&#8217;t knw whether its love or its just a attachment but its very hard 2 get her out&#8230;every time i try to study both these problems play a vital role in jus closing my books n thinking about my bad luck&#8230;i just don&#8217;t know what to do&#8230;my exams are also coming up very soon.<br />
I just hope that ur post helps me out&#8230;<br />
Thank you&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: Jay Perez</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jay Perez</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 30 Jul 2011 17:47:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Oh my jeebiz!! 
Yknow, maybe I can try doing this about my homesickness... I miss my old friends from my old school so bad that I even dream about seeing them almost every night, last night included. 
I don&#039;t wanna forget about my friends or the good times we had,  but I&#039;m always miserable thinking about them and worrying about if they&#039;re haviing fun without me... Of course I want them to be happy but not without me!! 
And my parents say we can visit one day, but I have the feeling they&#039;re lying. I think they don&#039;t like me.... And I want to forget that too! Because I&#039;m  the result of a marriage that ended badly and my all my parents hate eachother. And now I have little half siblings and they all kinda carry on like they don&#039;t want me around because I&#039;m just a reminder of that....
Sorry for annoying you and stuff but I&#039;m 16 and no one seems to care but my half brother from my dad&#039;s first marriage and my best friend and they shouldn&#039;t have to listen anymore...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oh my jeebiz!!<br />
Yknow, maybe I can try doing this about my homesickness&#8230; I miss my old friends from my old school so bad that I even dream about seeing them almost every night, last night included.<br />
I don&#8217;t wanna forget about my friends or the good times we had,  but I&#8217;m always miserable thinking about them and worrying about if they&#8217;re haviing fun without me&#8230; Of course I want them to be happy but not without me!!<br />
And my parents say we can visit one day, but I have the feeling they&#8217;re lying. I think they don&#8217;t like me&#8230;. And I want to forget that too! Because I&#8217;m  the result of a marriage that ended badly and my all my parents hate eachother. And now I have little half siblings and they all kinda carry on like they don&#8217;t want me around because I&#8217;m just a reminder of that&#8230;.<br />
Sorry for annoying you and stuff but I&#8217;m 16 and no one seems to care but my half brother from my dad&#8217;s first marriage and my best friend and they shouldn&#8217;t have to listen anymore&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: No</title>
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		<dc:creator>No</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 07 Jul 2011 01:00:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Glen, I have a problem on my mind that i have done in the last 3 days. I would rather not say what it is on this post. I get what your saying about you have to let yourself think about it to except it and to just get on with life. I would like if you could comment back so you could help me through this.

Thank you.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Glen, I have a problem on my mind that i have done in the last 3 days. I would rather not say what it is on this post. I get what your saying about you have to let yourself think about it to except it and to just get on with life. I would like if you could comment back so you could help me through this.</p>
<p>Thank you.</p>
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		<title>By: janesa</title>
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		<dc:creator>janesa</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 04 Jul 2011 08:33:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>hi..
thank you for that i really much realized such things right now..
now i know how to overcome with my feelings regarding about such guy..
i trully much appreciate your story and your right not all of the people who have a great grades in college could be truly succeed in their lives coz our life depends on how we use it...
i am so much expect that you will continue to inspire such unknowledgeable person like me...
thanks a lot!
(^_^)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>hi..<br />
thank you for that i really much realized such things right now..<br />
now i know how to overcome with my feelings regarding about such guy..<br />
i trully much appreciate your story and your right not all of the people who have a great grades in college could be truly succeed in their lives coz our life depends on how we use it&#8230;<br />
i am so much expect that you will continue to inspire such unknowledgeable person like me&#8230;<br />
thanks a lot!<br />
(^_^)</p>
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