Comments on: 8 Things to Stop Doing Right Now http://www.pluginid.com/stop-doing/ Personal Development Blog to Plug You Into Your Identity Fri, 10 Sep 2010 09:38:00 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.1 By: sringangel http://www.pluginid.com/stop-doing/comment-page-2/#comment-10032 sringangel Sat, 19 Jun 2010 00:56:30 +0000 http://www.pluginid.com/?p=1690#comment-10032 I think it also takes alot to change based on what people think. It should be questioning self, "Why should I do it? Will it make me happier?" and also "Does it benefit me as a person?" I myself took a huge step of change from high-schooler to a Varsity student. (looks especially) Some may think this change may have been worthless, I was one of the many person who thinks that at first,but then I found out that looks do play a role in building a person's character. You don't have to look exceptionally gorgeous/over-make up, just a few more minutes of straightening that hair or putting up a layer of foundation will make much difference. Its a two-side satisfaction. Where not only you feel good about yourself but also others too about you. I too have known not-really-pretty-face-on people but knowing them has really made me think "Wow she have grown more beautiful" I do agree people with inner beauty have a greater value of beauty compared with people who have physical beauty alone. I think it also takes alot to change based on what people think. It should be questioning self, “Why should I do it? Will it make me happier?” and also “Does it benefit me as a person?”
I myself took a huge step of change from high-schooler to a Varsity student. (looks especially)
Some may think this change may have been worthless, I was one of the many person who thinks that at first,but then I found out that looks do play a role in building a person’s character.
You don’t have to look exceptionally gorgeous/over-make up, just a few more minutes of straightening that hair or putting up a layer of foundation will make much difference.
Its a two-side satisfaction. Where not only you feel good about yourself but also others too about you.

I too have known not-really-pretty-face-on people but knowing them has really made me think “Wow she have grown more beautiful” I do agree people with inner beauty have a greater value of beauty compared with people who have physical beauty alone.

]]> By: Sourav Ghosh http://www.pluginid.com/stop-doing/comment-page-2/#comment-9747 Sourav Ghosh Thu, 20 May 2010 03:43:28 +0000 http://www.pluginid.com/?p=1690#comment-9747 Absolutely fantastic post. It's not that people don't know that they should stop doing these things, but somehow everyone don't have the courage and the right kind of attitude to implement these in their lives. Absolutely fantastic post. It’s not that people don’t know that they should stop doing these things, but somehow everyone don’t have the courage and the right kind of attitude to implement these in their lives.

]]> By: shabbar http://www.pluginid.com/stop-doing/comment-page-2/#comment-9734 shabbar Tue, 18 May 2010 13:17:03 +0000 http://www.pluginid.com/?p=1690#comment-9734 if you stop doing these 8 things a lot of things will start in your life.. excellent Inspirational article. if you stop doing these 8 things a lot of things will start in your life.. excellent Inspirational article.

]]> By: mister J http://www.pluginid.com/stop-doing/comment-page-2/#comment-9367 mister J Fri, 16 Apr 2010 16:07:11 +0000 http://www.pluginid.com/?p=1690#comment-9367 to add more at no 7 I quite disagree because, for example myself when in hard time, I really really need a reason to be happy again. Not all painful things could easily turn us happy unless it solved. After that I could be happy again.:=) to add more at no 7 I quite disagree because, for example myself when in hard time, I really really need a reason to be happy again. Not all painful things could easily turn us happy unless it solved. After that I could be happy again.:=)

]]> By: Kelli http://www.pluginid.com/stop-doing/comment-page-2/#comment-9358 Kelli Thu, 15 Apr 2010 23:07:19 +0000 http://www.pluginid.com/?p=1690#comment-9358 I’ve been having a pretty tough time lately and after reading your post it seems pretty obvious why. I struggle with all eight AND #9 suggested by one of your readers. I’ve been thinking about making changes in my life lately but really have had no idea where to start. All I know is I WANT to be happy! So I’m going to start by addressing the things you spelled out on this post. Thanks for the advice. I’m going to check back periodically for more motivation. :-) I’ve been having a pretty tough time lately and after reading your post it seems pretty obvious why. I struggle with all eight AND #9 suggested by one of your readers. I’ve been thinking about making changes in my life lately but really have had no idea where to start.

All I know is I WANT to be happy! So I’m going to start by addressing the things you spelled out on this post.

Thanks for the advice. I’m going to check back periodically for more motivation. :-)

]]> By: mister J http://www.pluginid.com/stop-doing/comment-page-2/#comment-9355 mister J Thu, 15 Apr 2010 16:30:20 +0000 http://www.pluginid.com/?p=1690#comment-9355 I love this post and that 8 reasons clicking my mindset a while, hence, of course I gain some idea to rethink what other have to think about me.. I love this post and that 8 reasons clicking my mindset a while, hence, of course I gain some idea to rethink what other have to think about me..

]]> By: himachal http://www.pluginid.com/stop-doing/comment-page-2/#comment-9299 himachal Sat, 10 Apr 2010 14:52:22 +0000 http://www.pluginid.com/?p=1690#comment-9299 great post, i enjoyed it thoroughly. bookmarked and subscribed it. waiting for more. great post, i enjoyed it thoroughly. bookmarked and subscribed it. waiting for more.

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]]> By: Adam http://www.pluginid.com/stop-doing/comment-page-2/#comment-9157 Adam Mon, 29 Mar 2010 15:11:08 +0000 http://www.pluginid.com/?p=1690#comment-9157 Surely listening to someone who tells you not to do something is contradicting your message? Great post though :) Surely listening to someone who tells you not to do something is contradicting your message?

Great post though :)

]]> By: allison akemi http://www.pluginid.com/stop-doing/comment-page-2/#comment-9148 allison akemi Mon, 29 Mar 2010 06:04:15 +0000 http://www.pluginid.com/?p=1690#comment-9148 Truly enjoy this blog... and this website. Officially one of my favorites. However, I do have an issue with point number 4. I am someone that ALWAYS blames myself for everything and anything that happens in my life... I am a control freak- and because of that I continually self loathe, question my decisions, and ultimately blame myself for EVERYTHING, including things that are out of my control. This is something that I am really trying to work on because it is seriously damaging to my overall health and well being. I am not saying that we should not take responsibility for our actions... that is something we all must do. I am well aware of this point and agree with it fully. The actions of others... that affect OUR lives... we can not control- and should not take responsibility for these situations. There are MANY situations and circumstances that will undoubtedly occur in all of our lives that make no sense. Abuse, assault, heartbreak, accidents, and health issues to name just a few. There are MANY situations that we CAN and SHOULD blame on others. In these situations the ONLY thing we can control is our reactions, responses and our perseverance. Ironically, I say this with 100% conviction but it is the one thing I am unable to truly grasp. Truly enjoy this blog… and this website. Officially one of my favorites.

However, I do have an issue with point number 4. I am someone that ALWAYS blames myself for everything and anything that happens in my life… I am a control freak- and because of that I continually self loathe, question my decisions, and ultimately blame myself for EVERYTHING, including things that are out of my control. This is something that I am really trying to work on because it is seriously damaging to my overall health and well being.

I am not saying that we should not take responsibility for our actions… that is something we all must do. I am well aware of this point and agree with it fully. The actions of others… that affect OUR lives… we can not control- and should not take responsibility for these situations.

There are MANY situations and circumstances that will undoubtedly occur in all of our lives that make no sense. Abuse, assault, heartbreak, accidents, and health issues to name just a few. There are MANY situations that we CAN and SHOULD blame on others. In these situations the ONLY thing we can control is our reactions, responses and our perseverance. Ironically, I say this with 100% conviction but it is the one thing I am unable to truly grasp.

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