Visualization: 4 Mind Tricks to Change Your Life

Glen / 32 Comments / February 26th, 2009 / Subscribe via RSS

Have you ever read a book and the author gives you a simple exercise to do in order to grasp the concept they are talking about? It could be dropping a pen in order to understand ‘letting go’ or it could be ‘focused breathing’ to understand living in the moment. Often times these small exercises help things click in your mind.

To take that concept to a more advanced level, I thought I would look at some visualizations that show the power of our mind and how it affects our feelings, emotions and reactions. These ‘tricks’ really do have the potential to vastly improve areas of your life and also begin to grow your consciousness.

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‘Mind Tricks’

What I’m going to share isn’t supposed to be a crutch that you use regularly in daily life. The ideas shared here are to help you see how small and irrelevant your mind-made problems really are, and how fragile the mind can be. With these tricks, our negative emotions can completely disappear and a shift in awareness can come in after a matter of minutes.

That’s the main thing I want to share here: you are not your mind. The mind is a tool and these visualizations are using this tool to change your internal conflicts into internal peace and clarity. Often, we identify with problems we have created such as ‘I am stupid’, ‘I am fat’, ‘I am angry’ and so on.

“I’m shy” is a popular self-identification, but one that can be broken in a matter of minutes. When we identify with something we start to live by it, if you think of yourself as shy you start to avoid social situations and the never-ending cycle of being shy continues. Is a shy person still shy if in the tick of a clock they can go and stand on stage in front of 20,000 people and give a powerful speech?

These techniques should hopefully help you with living in the moment and I hope you enjoy trying them if nothing else.

4 Mind Tricks

The tricks that I’m going to share with you today are titled:

  • Connected in a Web (Seeing ‘Oneness’ and Removing Doubts)
  • Golden, Shimmering, Positive Light (Removing Negative Emotions)
  • Colourful Balloon of Emotions (Removing Negative Emotions)
  • Cinema Screen Reality (Taking Action on your Goals)

In brackets are the benefits that you are likely to experience when trying the technique. I advise that you pick a benefit you would most like to have and try that technique. That way, there’s more chance of these working because you are able to visualize the necessary components more effectively.

1) Connected in a Web

I’ve read a lot of books on spirituality and something that always comes up is the topic of ‘oneness’. How we are life, and how we are all connected to each other. I think if we could all see the world like this, it wouldn’t just be another illusion but create a massive amount of peace on the planet and end a lot of violence and suffering. On that positive note, I accidentally created my own visualization that has been working very well for me.

Firstly, this came about because myself, and I’m sure many of you included, often have problems with others that are on our mind. Whether it is caring what people think of you, worrying about how you treat others or still going over a past personal incident in our minds…it’s incessant. This one little trick has managed to bring instant peace to me and made negative thoughts regarding other people completely disappear.

Whenever you are in a public place, simply visualize everyone being connected to each other by some thin, neon green cord. As if we are all free moving but this cord is touching us at all times. Realise that we are all connected, we are all here together, none of us are different than the other and we’re all attached to this cord. Don’t just assume this won’t work, the next time you are away from your PC just try this little technique.

I’ve found it to instantly rid me of caring what others think, who would care when we are all one, we are all connected? Instead of thinking of people judging you, it’s more like they are judging a part of them so it holds much less value in your mind.

2) Golden, Shimmering Positive, Light

This visualization comes in two parts. First of all, sit down, close your eyes and completely relax. Now, focus on anything negative in your mind at this moment, something that has been bothering you or something you would like to change. Imagine that you can take all this negativity and create a ball in your hand with it. Clench one of your fists, seeing all the negative energy and emotions contained within.

Now, keeping the negative energy there, focus on positive moments in your life. Think about times when you did something brave, when people praised you, when you made yourself proud. Concentrate on this and get as many ideas and memories as you can; if you focus you will find there are lots. Now, turn all this positivity into a shimmering, golden liquid. Make it so bright that its colours are emitting around it, lighting up your environment.

Now, visualise yourself pouring all this positive, glowing, holy liquid into your hand and completely drowning the negative emotions that you contained within your grasp. The end result should be you awakening into a happier and more relaxed state.

3) Colourful Balloon of Emotions

Once again, sit back, relax and close your eyes. Focus on your breathing and notice yourself getting more and more relaxed as you sink into your chair. Bring into clarity some of the negative emotions you are holding inside yourself – anger at situations, things you hate about yourself, and things you would love to change.

For each negative emotion, give it a colour. If you are angry at what someone said or did to you then make it purple. If you wish you weighed less or were a different height, give that a colour as well, maybe blue. Assign colours to all the negative emotions inside you till there is a mass of colour and emotion; now visualise yourself putting all these colours into a transparent balloon. The balloon is full of air and all these colours are swirling around creating a magical effect. See this balloon as holding all the negativity inside of you, just moving around inside.

Next, take a pin and just *POP* the balloon. See all your negative emotions disappear. Open your eyes and you should be in a much calmer and happier state.

4) Cinema Screen Reality

This technique is used by a lot of hypnotherapists and a common method in NLP (Neuro-linguistic programming). I’ve already touched upon it in this post but it is very relevant here as well. For this to be effective, think of something in your life that you would like to achieve, something you want but are too afraid to do or something that you don’t think you have the ability to complete. See yourself on the screen of a movie theatre, completely zoom out of your own body so that you are sitting in the back row, watching a projection of yourself on the display.

Now you should have that vision in your mind of seeing yourself from a distance. See yourself on a movie screen as if you are acting something out. What you should see is that you are in control of this character; if you can visualize it then this ‘character’, this ‘you’ can do whatever you want it to. Once you’ve got this, re-imagine whatever it was you would like to improve at from earlier. Spend however long it takes to run your on-screen character (you) through the motions of whatever it is you want to do, in as much detail as possible. Take your time with this.

Seeing yourself do this should start to program into your mind that you can actually do it, it is possible. This technique should help give you the confidence and the drive to get out there and go for the things you want, they are possible.

Hopefully you’ve learned some helpful new techniques with this post and learned a little about how the mind is a tool, not something we are. Use this tool whenever necessary but don’t rely on it as a crutch to your success.

Do you have any visualizations you would like to share? Let me know and tell us how the ones above worked for you…

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32 Comments »

Comment by Sunny Jamiel

Glen,

Interesting article and I was just writing about the same thing 2 days ago. There is a whole concept of visualization using colors specifically for specific results. I don’t know if you have ever read/researched on that or not but I have seen it working miraculously.

Comment by Glen

Hey Sunny, I didn’t see your post. BTW I did notice that your blog title changes based on your latest post…did you want that?

I haven’t heard of visualization regarding colours but thanks for the heads up, something to look into.

Comment by Alan

Glen… your post IS about visualizing using colours…;)

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Comment by Glen

Hey Alan, I meant using specific colours for certain results like Sunny suggested :)

 
 
 
 
Comment by Sunny Jamiel

Glen,

Here is the link to the post. It’s a creative and fun visualization technique that I myself do sometimes. http://www.seekingmind.com/2009/02/vacation-0-pocket/

About the title, yeah, I wanted it “fluid” only on the blog page.

By the way, do let me know if you accept guest posts. I’d love to write for this blog once in while as it is more in tune with the topic I like write on.

Comment by Glen

Thanks Sunny, I’ll check that out now.

I’m not accepting guest posts right now, simply because I want to ‘make my mark’ first, but I will in future and let you know :)

 
 
Comment by Sunny Jamiel

Sure do that. I’ll be happy to contribute. :)

 

Hello Glen…

Some great exercises, I’m a BIG fan of NLP, so I enjoyed your exercises.

A little ninja trick I use whenever I find my self being unconscious and suffering from something that has happend is:

To take a few deep breaths, take all the air down to the stomach and ask yourself (now that you have your focus in the NOW)

“Do I really have a problem? or am I just carrying some ballast from the past in my mind” (And in that moment you become conscious)

It works everytime for me, all my negative ballast is gone, out the window.

Just twist it, so it works for you..

I’ll twist this comment a little bit and give you some credit here in the end:

I don’t know if you can remember our conversation at Zen habits forum, where I listed my favorite blogs and yours was number 3 or 4, well that have changed now, I have followed your blog more intense after writing with you and your blog has reached number 1 for sure!!

I love your articles and no other blog can be compared to yours after my opinion, maybe someday mine will. (you are like a role model in this area for me, particularly because you and I share the same dream, and your close to reach it)

Your website and your communication (articles, comments etc.) has inspired me and have had a great impact on the development for my blog.

So thank you VERY much Glen.

Auf wiedersnichzel

Nicolai : )

Comment by Glen

How do I respond to a comment like that? Wow.

First of all thanks for that extra tip, I’ve added that to my personal notes in Google Docs (I keep lots of ideas in there).

Secondly, thanks so much. Yesterday someone said my guest post on another blog was the “best post I’ve read in my life” which also blew me away.

That means a lot to me Nicolai and I appreciate it :)

 
 
Comment by Eddie Subscribed to comments via email

As always, great post Glenn. #3 seemed interesting.

Comment by Glen

The first one has worked the best for me, I don’t know why as it’s so simple. Try it in a crowded place and see how you feel

 
 
Comment by Alan

Nice post. A big thing now is a visualization board. Make a poster of images and quotes of what you want to obtain in life… The whole design your life, be the architect, manifest your true self idea. Putting up goals (simple or large) on post-its around your office or room is effective too. Out of sight, out of mind right?

Comment by Glen

Great tip Alan, I wrote about vision boards on my post about motivation:

http://www.pluginid.com/motivational-techniques/

Enjoy!

 
 
Comment by Jens Upton Subscribed to comments via email

Hiya Glen

Thanks for another great post.

I highly value the use of the creative imagination and these 4 techniques go a long way in using that flexible muscle. When you just do these exercises to discover what happens, often surprisingly cool things occur. 2 & 4 were dramatic for me this evening. I’ll explore the other two later.

Ive been meditating for years, have practised different systems from minutes to hours a day and I get to notice alot. Ive spoken with people who avoid meditating but can relax really well and have noticed many useful things from visualising. there’s a lot of ‘psychology’ around colours and meditating quietly upon certain colours can be revealing.

Jens

Comment by Glen

Hey Jens, thanks a lot!

Number 4 fascinates me the most to be honest, the fact that our body can’t tell the difference between something real and something imagined. It makes sense when you think about it though, we would react the same to seeing a normal bear as we would to a man in a bear suit if we couldn’t tell the difference.

I’m glad they worked out for you, thanks for trying them! :)

 
 
Comment by Graeme

Hey Glen. With regards to the first point, to bring in an extra NLP idea, you can try it using other modalities as well. So while you might get a lot of success picturing being connected to other people with the coloured cord (clearly very visually orientated), it might work better for others to get that kinesthetic feeling of being connected. I’m not sure if there’s a way to bring in other modalities to get that experience, but it’s worth a try.

Great post Glen. Peace

Comment by Glen

Hey Graeme, I hope life is good! I’m loving your pictures of Korea, looks amazing :)

To be honest I haven’t read up on too much NLP directly, I just seem to find bits of it in the things I do. I like the kinesthetic idea..I’m just not sure how it would be implemented?

Comment by Graeme

Thanks Glen, yes life is great (I’m back at home now, by the way).

I’m sure a lot of your readers will have had that experience of connectedness, or at least come into contact with the idea. For some people though, that feeling of connectedness is more of a physical feeling in their bodies, rather than a visual image of being connected through a cord like you said.

NLP says that some people think more in images, like I guess you do, while other people think more in terms of feeling things, or hearing things. So it’s nice whenever you do an exercise like this to include more modalities like feeling and hearing, because more people will be able to relate to the experience.

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Comment by Rudolf

Thanks for inspiration Glen. Connected in a Web is a great exercise on oneness, I am going to experiment with this more. Cinema screen reality is also great but I would take it one step further. Why not to step inside your cinema character (yourself) to fully experience in the 1st person? 1st person visualizations have bigger impact for me than 3rd person visualizations, of course we are all different, just a tip.

My favourite visualization to get into very “peaceful state” and to get a bit detached when needed is this.. I lie down (or sit), breathe through all the parts of my body slowly and when Iwander the place and I keep adding more and more details everytime I enter this place, using as many senses as possible. I also change some aspects depending on my mood, weather, time of the day, etc. My point is that this is my personal place, I can enter almost anytime in a few minutes, I am the creator and the participant at the same time and it is wonderful.

 
Comment by Vered - MomGrind

I am quite possibly the least spiritual person you will ever meet. I will never have the patience to actually do any of these. But I found this interesting nonetheless. Especially the Colourful Balloon of Emotions technique.

Comment by Glen

If you’re happy with everything in your life then you wont need any of these. I use them when needed or simply for interest purposes. Nice of you to be honest though Vered :)

 
 
Comment by goldensparks

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Comment by Glen

Thanks, you too

 
 
Comment by Global Patriot

Visualizations are a great tool for separating the mind from the you that is connected to all things. And as mentioned in this post, that process can also allow you to break free from self-identification habits. Just knowing what’s possible will take you a long way toward enlightenment and empowerment.

 

Since my word of the year is “light”, I really connected with the visualization of shimmering golden liquid. I’d like to naturally surround my negative energy with shimmering light until the negativity dissolves. Thanks.

 
Comment by Evelyn Lim

I practice some of these techniques in NLP, which are really variations to those that you mentioned here. For instance, instead of the shimmering gold liquid, I visualize a sphere of positive energy surrounding me. Then, I also use anchoring, a NLP technique, to “anchor” in the feeling. Should there be any future instance when I need to feel positive, I just need to “fire” off this anchor.

As you’ve mentioned, the cinema screen reality is also a NLP technique. It is great for those who suffer from the effects of a traumatic event. The traumatized person will likewise imagine as if he or she is the observer in a cinema. Then he/she rewinds the scenes back to the time just before the traumatic event. Apparently, this technique works very well for those who have been involved in rape cases.

 
Comment by Vincent @ Yinnergy

Hi Glen,

Wicked Awesome Article! :-)

I am an artist myself and so “visualization” is a massive part of my creative endeavors.

I try to maximize my 5 senses (touch, sight, smell, taste, hearing) whenever I visualize my goals.
For example: I would do a walk through of the Penthouse I’m designing by
-feeling the textures of all the wood grain railings,
-smelling of all the tropical plants
-looking at every detail of my penthouse from top to bottom
-tasting all the amazing food displayed on my dining tables
-listening to the ocean breeze from outside of my 21 story balcony

 
Comment by Dan Subscribed to comments via email

Thank you, I needed this.

 
Comment by Akexander Subscribed to comments via email

One can visualize irrational emotions as differently colored poisons injected into ones veins with a syringe. It helps to dissociate from their effects on objective thinking and go on a meta-level of cognition.

 
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